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Allah's Slave
09-20-2008, 01:12 AM
Why Women Cry

Author Unknown



A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?"

"Because I need to" she said.

"I don't understand," he said.

His mother just hugged him and said, "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," his dad answered carelessly.

The little boy, still wondering why women cry, finally asked the old wise shaikh (scholar). "He surely knows the answer", he thought.

"Ya Shaikh! Why do women cry so easily?"

The Shaikh answered:

"When Allah made the woman she had to be special. He made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.

He gave an inner strength to endure both childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.

He gave her a toughness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

He gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child hurts her badly.

He gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. He gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And lastly, He gave her a tear. This is hers and only hers exclusively to use whenever she needs it. She needs no reason, no explanation, its hers.

You see my son, the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the beauty of her face, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

Hope4Jannah
09-20-2008, 01:27 AM
Why Women Cry

Author Unknown




He gave an inner strength to endure both childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.


And lastly, He gave her a tear. This is hers and only hers exclusively to use whenever she needs it. She needs no reason, no explanation, its hers.

You see my son, the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the beauty of her face, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."
Masha Allah, that is beautiful!

SubhanAllah, the childbirth part is so true that I myself wonder how they do it or if I will be able to do it...........

Awesome, next time I feel like crying Im just gonna let it out lol ;) surely after reading this you wouldn't ask WHY? lol

sonrisakm
09-22-2008, 03:39 PM
MashaAllah, it is beautiful. I'm more worried about the rejection that comes from the child/children. SubhanAllah, becoming a parent must make you a better son/daughter. As you would not like to be hurt by your own child, you wouldn't want your parents to be hurt by you.

DesertShip
09-22-2008, 04:04 PM
wow mashAllah that was truely beautiful!! :)

Dreams
09-23-2008, 12:40 PM
A very insightful author indeed! Subhanallah it was well worth reading this and it increased the love I have for my mother.

ilmseeker
09-23-2008, 02:09 PM
Masha'Allah very beautifully put!

Alima
09-24-2008, 08:42 AM
Masha'Allah! Very Insightful

They do not need any reason to cry << That's true! lol.


Subhan'Allah, women are truly something else, beautiful in their own little ways.

Naima Abdulkadir
12-31-2008, 12:44 AM
You see my son, the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the beauty of her face, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."MashaAllah that was beautiful. I especially loved this part.

That kid probably grew up to be a wise young man.

I.Love.Islam
01-27-2009, 04:03 PM
MashAllah, this is so beautiful and very true!
Jazaki Allah khair for sharing this with us.

Bright Star
01-27-2009, 07:35 PM
That was so beautiful! May Allah help us to treat our mothers with the utmost respect and love that they deserve.

Sister Asha Bile
02-07-2009, 06:41 PM
AWWW, tat is so sweet
Tat is so true, now i understand why mom cries some tymez. wow,
i can't wait till im a mother, well not anytyme soon,
but still itz goin to be a nice journey..
" TEar drop.
'My mama asha, why are u cry?"
"Becuz i dont have to have a reason.:
much luv.

Imani
02-18-2009, 07:42 PM
awwww, that was so cute!! It's definitely true though, sometimes we just need to let it ALL out :) Just because we need to. The father's response made me laugh... typical... but as Sheikh Yaser said concerning men and women to each other, you can't live with them and you definitely can't live without 'em! :D