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Muhajiba By Heart
11-03-2008, 02:12 AM
MashaAllah .. very interesting and informative post .. makes you think and actually think critically .. Jazakullah Khairun
jazakillahu kheir, this was a nice post
11-03-2008, 12:39 PM
AWESOME post...I didn't read it all yet, but just the title says more than anything, ya know.
Hamzah Al-Amin Sohail
11-03-2008, 12:46 PM
very tru ting sistah in islam.
may be these forums will helps us to learn together as an ummah and share our islam instead of hiding away with our cultures which is prelevant in the ummah today.
may allah guide us back to the the tru islam.
11-03-2008, 02:28 PM
MashAllah that was a very well written piece, and an excellent reminder. Jazakallahu Khayrn for posting it.
love the title, too :)
11-03-2008, 06:24 PM
mashaAllah, that was excellent! jazakallah khair for the reminder. i agree with sidrae, too, on the title. Cool. :)
11-03-2008, 06:57 PM
MashaAllah, nice article :)
JAK for sharing!
11-04-2008, 11:44 AM
...ma sha Allaah taabra' wa taala.
very well informative. what an amazing article. may Allaah taa'a reward you all.
Hamzah Al-Amin Sohail
11-07-2008, 10:19 AM
11-22-2008, 04:50 PM
JazakAllahu khair sis. I really enjoyed reading your thoughts on this process and with all honesty I can say that I totally get what you mean.
....3 months ago i wouldnt have married me...but now like brother zahid...lol :)
11-22-2008, 06:06 PM
WOULD YOU MARRY YOU?
11-23-2008, 02:56 PM
I remember a halaqah i went to where the speaker made everyone write a list of what they want in a husband/wife..thinking back now i remember the sisters having a lot of high expectations as well as the brothers. Then we were all asked how many of these qualities we all have that we expect from our future spouses..the room was silent. My uncle who has been married for nearly 10 years now said to me 'when brothers and sisters are single marriage is like wow..but once your married its more like what have i got myself into!!'
11-23-2008, 03:10 PM
I'd marry me too.
11-23-2008, 04:18 PM
uncle who has been married for nearly 10 years now said to me 'when brothers and sisters are single marriage is like wow..but once your married its more like what have i got myself into!!'Thats funny. I ve heard similar sayings before. Inevitably there will be ups n downs --- thats life!!!;)
11-23-2008, 07:24 PM
This is pretty interesting. A friend of mine had a similar idea. Mashallah, she is very beautiful and from a prominent family so she's pretty sought after, I guess. So she did this thing where she wrote down all the pros and cons she had of herself (Psyche majors....what can you say?) and was like "I'll give this to my dad so whenever someone comes by, before they say a word and before I hear about them, they get 'The List'. Eliminates wasted time and limits embarrassment on all sides."
I still think she was kidding but sometimes I wonder........
And yea, great thread.
11-24-2008, 04:25 AM
[QUOTE=HalaTayybah]I guess. So she did this thing where she wrote down all the pros and cons she had of herself (Psyche majors....what can you say?) and was like "I'll give this to my dad so whenever someone comes by, before they say a word and before I hear about them, they get 'The List'. Eliminates wasted time and limits embarrassment on all sides."
Very interesting.....I suppose it would save time and atleast you know what your parents have said. Mmmmmmhhh actually a good technique! http://forums.almaghrib.org/images/icons/icon12.gif
11-24-2008, 11:07 AM
Lol. My man. Jazak Allahu kheiran. I appreciate it ;)
Funny thing is... I get that a lot from brothers with no daughters... o.o
tis soo sad racoon...May Allah befriend you with those who have daughters, and are willing to marry them to you :) Ameen.
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