Question about obedience to parents if husband agrees

[muslim_v]

There is this question I got....

once a woman is married, she is obviously to obey her husband over anyone else. But in the case of her parents wanting her to do something, which the husband is in *agreement* with, would that command/wish of the parents be obligatory on her to obey? I would think it would be obligatory. Is that correct?

[Sumiyyah]

There is this question I got....

once a woman is married, she is obviously to obey her husband over anyone else. But in the case of her parents wanting her to do something, which the husband is in *agreement* with, would that command/wish of the parents be obligatory on her to obey? I would think it would be obligatory. Is that correct?

I think you answered your own question when you said the husband was in agreement anyway...because you still have to obey your parents regardless...

Now it gets confusing if the husband does NOT agree....if their wishes conflict...thats where most women have problems...

Because all else aside, EVERY Muslim must obey their parents on EVERYTHING unless it is a haraam action according to the shari'ah.

[Yaser Birjas]

The answer is yes as long as it is not Haram.

Wallahu Aa'lam