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Old 07-12-2010, 05:58 PM   #1
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Most Of Those Who Will Enter Hell Will Be Women!

Most Of Those Who Will Enter Hell Will Be Women!

Hadeeth One: Most of Hell’s inhabitants are women!

In the khutbah given during the solar eclipse, the Prophet (saw) said;

I saw hell and I saw that most of its dwellers/inhabitants were women.” [Bukhaaree & Muslim, via Ibn 'Abbaas]

Hadeeth Two: Most of Hell’s inhabitants are women! (Another narration)

The Prophet (saw) mentioned;

I stood by the gate of Hell and saw that most of those who entered (it) were women.” [Bukhaaree & Muslim, via Usaamah Ibn Zayd]

Hadeeth Three: Because they (women) are ungrateful to their husbands!

The prophet (aw) said;

O women, give in charity, for I have sen that you form the majority of the people of Hell.

They asked, “Why is that, O Messenger of Allaah?

He (saw) answered, “Because you curse too much and are ungrateful for the good treatment (done to you by your husbands).” [Bukhaaree & Muslim, via Abu Sa'eed al-Khudree]

Hadeeth Four: Very few women will enter Paradise!

The Prophet (saw) mention;

“Few of the inhabitants of Paradise are women.” [Muslim, via 'Imraan Ibn Husayn]

Hadeeth Five: How rare are the women of Paradise amongst us!

‘Amr Ibn al-’Aas mentioned ‘Whilst we were with the Messenger of Allaah (saw) in this valley (on this mountain path), he (saw) said;

Look, can you see anything?

We said, ‘We se crows, and one of them stands out because its beak and feet are red.

The Messenger of Allaah said; “No women will enter Paradise except those who are as rare among them as this crow is among the others.” [Ahmad & Abu Ya'la, via 'Amr Ibn al-'Aas, see also Silsilat al-Ahaadeeth as-Saheehah, 4/466. hadeeth # 1851]

Explanation:

This does not contradict the fact that every man will have more than one wife in Paradise. What is referred to by ‘the majority of women being in hell’ is from the descendants of Aadam. What is referred to by ‘man having more than one (i.e., multiple) wife(s) in Paradise’ is from among the gorgeous Hoor Al-Ayn.

So there is no contradiction.

Qurtubee mentions in his ‘At-Tadhkhirah’ (1/369):

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Women will be few among the inhabitants of Paradise because in most cases they prefer the immediate pleasures of this life, as they are (generally) less wise and unable to keep the hereafter in mind.

They are too weak to strive (alone) and prepare themselves for it, and are more inclined towards this world.

In spite of all this, they are the strongest factor in this world that distracts men from the Hereafter, because men are inclined to desire them and they are not concerned with the Hereafter.

They are quick to follow those who call them to deviate from Islaam, and reluctant to follow those pious people who call them to the Hereafterand righteous deeds.
Another factor why many people will be driven to hell (in a thirsty state) is mentioned in a hadeeth collected by Bukhaaree and Muslim on the authority of Aboo Hurayrah, where the Messenger of Allaah said;

Hell is surrounded with desires, and Paradise is veiled (in another narration ‘surrounded’) by hardships.

May Allaah protect us all from the Fire of Hell, whose fuel is mankind and stones.
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Old 07-12-2010, 06:19 PM   #2
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Re: Most Of Those Who Will Enter Hell Will Be Women!

ok so brother what is the message your tryin to get across here?
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Old 07-14-2010, 07:46 AM   #3
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Re: Most Of Those Who Will Enter Hell Will Be Women!

I wonder!

The same message the Prophet (saw) made to get across maybe?
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Old 07-14-2010, 03:56 PM   #4
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Re: Most Of Those Who Will Enter Hell Will Be Women!

saw this same msg in another forum, the moderator, Um Abdullah M., replied,

"Firstly, according to the hadiths about women being most of hell's inhabitants, it is due to sins such as cursing a lot and being ungrateful to the husband, which are not major kufr that expels one from Islam, so that means that they will be most of hell's inhabitants at the beginning for punishment, then they will enter Jannah after that, since their crime was a sin and not kufr, and as long as one dies a Muslim, they will enter Jannah sooner or later.
So the hadith about women being least from people of Jannah is also about the begining, when many of them will be in hell for punishment for their sins, then later they will be most people of Jnnah after they are taken out of fire.


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This does not contradict the fact that every man will have more than one wife in Paradise. What is referred to by ‘the majority of women being in hell’ is from the descendants of Aadam. What is referred to by ‘man having more than one (i.e., multiple) wife(s) in Paradise’ is from among the gorgeous Hoor Al-Ayn.
According to Al-Qadi 'Iyad and other ulama, the hadith about every man having 2 wives, and none being a bachelor in Jannah, is about women from descendants of Adam alayhi assalam and not hoor, for there are hadiths mentioned about men having lots of wives from hoor, which means that women from children of Adam are more than men."
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Old 07-16-2010, 05:34 AM   #5
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Beautifully Said Gkhan Again we get ur message, dunt be ungrateful to ur husbands, but why all this Negativity? stuff like "Women will be few among the inhabitants of Paradise because in most cases they prefer the immediate pleasures of this life, as they are (generally) less wise and unable to keep the hereafter in mind.They are too weak to strive (alone) and prepare themselves for it, and are more inclined towards this world.In spite of all this, they are the strongest factor in this world that distracts men from the Hereafter, because men are inclined to desire them and they are not concerned with the Hereafter.They are quick to follow those who call them to deviate from Islaam, and reluctant to follow those pious people who call them to the Hereafterand righteous deeds" Is Not necessary and ABSOLUTELY NOT accurate and demeaning to us woman. No wonder ur signature says no sisters talk to me, cuz ur posts r always insulting us, and u dunt want us defending ouselves perhaps? U make it seem like its us sisters distracting men from the hereafter, its all our fault, we're dumb,cursed, we'll all mostly be in hell..why this negativity towards women? Like Gkhan says, In the end they'll be more women in Heaven then men, so keep ur sexism to urself.

p.s- U seem to have sum serious issues with women..get sum help.
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Old 07-16-2010, 12:54 PM   #6
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Re: Most Of Those Who Will Enter Hell Will Be Women!

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ok so brother what is the message your tryin to get across here?
he has a history of creating women-bashing threads.

brother 'where is the love' ( i ask YOU, where is the love for our sisters in YOUR heart?), maybe you should pick up the book ' the Prophet's methods for correcting people's mistakes'. you can google, i believe there is an ebook on islamicawakening.
I am not rejecting the hadiths, but there are different interpretations i read, and you are only presenting it YOUR way. Your method of giving out d'awah (if that's what you really are trying to do.. because from your history, you probably are just a bored teenager trying to stir up a controversy) is totally hikmah-less. here's an excerpt from the same book i want you to read.

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Being careful lest correcting one mistake leads to a bigger mistake
It is a well-established fact that Islam allows the lesser of two evils in order to repel a greater evil. So a da’iyah may keep quiet about one mistake lest saying something lead to a more serious mistake.



The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) kept quiet about the munaafiqeen and did not execute them, even though their kufr was well-established. He bore their insults with patience, lest people say, “Muhammad is killing his companions,” especially since their true nature was not known to everyone. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) did not destroy the Ka’bah in order to rebuild it on the foundations laid by Ibraaheem, out of consideration towards Quraysh who were still new in Islam and too close to their recent jaahiliyyah. He (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) feared that it might be too much for them, so he left it as it was, with part missing, and the door set high up and closed to the masses, even though this contains an element of zulm (wrongdoing or oppression).



Before this, Allaah had told the Muslims not to insult the gods of the mushrikeen, even though this is a form of worship, because this could lead to people insulting Allaah, which is the worst of evil.



A dai’yah may keep quiet about a wrong action, or defer rebuking, or change his approach, if he thinks that by doing so he will avoid a greater evil or mistake. This is not considered to be shortcoming or negligence so long as his intention is sincere and he does not fear anyone except Allaah, and it was only concern for the best interests of Islam, not cowardice, that stopped him from saying anything.



We may note that what causes a greater evil when rebuking for one mistake is zealousness which is not checked or controlled.


this is exactly what you are doing. you are repelling the sisters from the deen.

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Women will be few among the inhabitants of Paradise because in most cases they prefer the immediate pleasures of this life, as they are (generally) less wise and unable to keep the hereafter in mind.

They are too weak to strive (alone) and prepare themselves for it, and are more inclined towards this world.

In spite of all this, they are the strongest factor in this world that distracts men from the Hereafter, because men are inclined to desire them and they are not concerned with the Hereafter.

They are quick to follow those who call them to deviate from Islaam, and reluctant to follow those pious people who call them to the Hereafterand righteous deeds.
where did you get this trash from? sorry, but that's what it is. there's nothing wrong in loving the dunya as long as your deen and eman are not at stake. you talk about muslim women, what about muslim guys that frequent bars, fornicate, father kids out of wedlock, do drugs, porno etc?
and fyi, no one carries the burden of someone else's sins. If a guy stares at a woman, it's HIS fault, cos he's not lowering his gaze.
You will be held accountable for the way you are presenting our deen. fear Allah.
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Old 07-16-2010, 01:13 PM   #7
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Re: Most Of Those Who Will Enter Hell Will Be Women!

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Is Not necessary and ABSOLUTELY NOT accurate and demeaning to us woman. No wonder ur signature says no sisters talk to me, cuz ur posts r always insulting us, and u dunt want us defending ouselves perhaps? U make it seem like its us sisters distracting men from the hereafter, its all our fault, we're dumb,cursed, we'll all mostly be in hell..why this negativity towards women? Like Gkhan says, In the end they'll be more women in Heaven then men, so keep ur sexism to urself.

p.s- U seem to have sum serious issues with women..get sum help.
It is not the love of dunya, rather the cursing and being ungrateful to their husbands that will land up a lot of women in hell initially. Maybe the author should focus his energy in converting the *boys* into *men* before questioning women.
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Old 07-16-2010, 01:50 PM   #8
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As salaam 'alaikum,

I understand the brother has said some things about women which are a bit of an exaggeration but I would like to remind everyone don't make assumptions about the brother or accuse him of being X or Y. Perhaps he has good intentions but the method of delivery is a bit off. We all have our own faults in this regard. Perhaps our faults are not so public that someone can point to us our faults. We should forgive our fellow Muslim brothers and sisters for their mistakes and advise them in a good manner. InshaAllah.
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Old 07-19-2010, 12:00 PM   #9
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As salaam 'alaikum,

I understand the brother has said some things about women which are a bit of an exaggeration but I would like to remind everyone don't make assumptions about the brother or accuse him of being X or Y. Perhaps he has good intentions but the method of delivery is a bit off. We all have our own faults in this regard. Perhaps our faults are not so public that someone can point to us our faults. We should forgive our fellow Muslim brothers and sisters for their mistakes and advise them in a good manner. InshaAllah.
it's not the first time. he has at least 3-4 threads dedicated to women bashing. Plus it's not the first time someone asked him to change his way of doing d'awah because it's resulting in more harm than good. I find it strange someone will have the guts to post again after politely being told to stop.
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Old 07-22-2010, 08:14 PM   #10
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Re: Most Of Those Who Will Enter Hell Will Be Women!

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I wonder!

The same message the Prophet (saw) made to get across maybe?
I HIGHLY doubt the Prophet SAW got the message across anywhere near the same way you are!!

brother where_is_the_love, your posts are really starting to get on my NERVES.. don't you wanna get married?? cuz if you do its not wise to get sisters to hate you. and let me tell you, if you continue posting like this, they will!!

we come to the almaghrib forums to get an imaan boost,bu then come across ur posts and leave with the exact opposite of what we came on the forums for!

and just a word of advice, plzz don't go doing dawah to non muslims...they have enough misconceptions about islam as it is.
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